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Turn away from what you want or pursue it? Old vs. new school spiritual approaches to desire

The nondual traditions have usually held that the seeker must turn away from desires for fulfillment in the world -- through relationships, pleasure, etc. The seeker should use knowledge and the cut the attachment to these. My approach is a bit different. The seeker must indeed turn away from seeking happiness in these pleasures, but this is only going to happen through a process of honest admission and pursuit of desire. The old knowledge+willpower way doesn't work that well.

If you love philosophy because you seek deep truth, there's good reason to consider a mystical path

If you are interested in philosophy because you are looking for ultimate truth -- the questions of why we are here, why there is something rather than nothing, and so on -- there is good philosophical reason for considering a mystical path. The senses and intellect are subject to doubt -- something borne out by thousands of years of philosophical dispute.

If truth is to be found, it has to be found in a different way of knowing. The enduring mystery of consciousness suggests a place to look. Thousands of years of mystical search across cultures suggests consistent reports of extra-mental truth, of ultimate truth beyond doubt. For seekers of truth, this is worth taking seriously and trying out. It is not about organized religion or blind belief. It's about looking within and finding out for yourself.

Self-Inquiry Misunderstood: It's not about figuring out the answer to the question 'Who am I?'

Many people get stuck in self-inquiry because they believe it's about trying to *figure out* the answer to the question "Who am I?" This prompts them to all kinds of misleading thought processes. Self-inquiry is really about the consistent redirection of attention towards the I, recognizing that every time you think you have it, you are actually focusing not on the I, but on an object of thought. But that gives another opportunity to redirect. So keep redirecting: every waking moment. That's self-inquiry.

For the seeker, the narrative is bondage

It is the narrative thread we have running through our minds about what we've done and experienced and anticipate -- the past and the future -- that constitutes suffering and bondage. It perpetuates itself by having us run on a kind of hamster wheel, a slave to our desires and fears. To break the cycle, we have to move our attention away from the narrative thoughts. This can cause great fear, which must be eventually confronted and challenged.